Saturday, March 31, 2018

Remedy for Broken Relationship in Astrology




When we go through difficult times in life or break in a relationship and feel the suffering, we need to remind ourselves that the Universe does not hurt us, but rather seeks to transform within us. But often transformation begins ruthlessly by taking away the things from us, we think we need most or we love the most. Not only do hard circumstances take away our relationships, but they give us some glimpses into our own “flaws” and what we need to improve. So what can we do when our wounds, our ugliness, or when our unloving feelings arise?


The healing work starts first beneath the surface of consciousness. Just like a physical wound heals from the inside out. We might be wise to tend to this wound in a very similar way to any other wound. Here are some things to consider:


1: Take your time out: When you are wounded you stop. Just as when you are sick you go to bed, so also do the same when your “heart is breaking”. Your energy flows inward to question and grieve, leaving you little energy for anything else. Give yourself a break, slow down, and take care of your basic needs: Food, rest, and basic self-care.


2: Try to know what is the problem: What is a difficult time to tell you something? Is this the last wound of a broken relationship, ( e.g. Saturn transit over your natal Venus ) How do you describe the condition, how long have you had it, and how did you get it? The wounded heart often needs some time to heal. You can do some of these things.


3: Create a Get-well Plan for yourself: Apply something to calm the pain down. Go inward to find the healer within yourself. This inner healer, speaking perhaps this time with the voice of divine power. Your own intuitive healer may say you’ve got to write it out, paint it out, cry or rage it out, or simply clean your house with a passion. Let your inner Saturn as healer, although things have changed, but they are moving in new directions with new possibilities. You may benefit by getting away for a while from your home or circle of friends. Go for a retreat or vacation to some place where you can gain perspective. Even a day away, or something to break up familiar routines can help.


Considering surrounding yourself with things that innately hold inspiring energy, or simply things you love, color, plants, and enjoy your time with nature, is a good way to overcome your depression. This could be allowing yourself things you’ve tended to deny yourself. Why not get yourself a pet, fresh flowers, a musical instrument, or whatever else you may have put on hold. After divorce, many people hated the loneliness of a double bed. So they can bring anything like an aquarium and are delighted in watching the fishes. Consider what lessons or insights can be gained and be open to the idea of how this experience can generate new possibilities for you. Move beyond shame and blame. Find out what was unconscious and invisible in the relationship. Keep cleaning your fears, anger, and irritation. It hurts, but you need to understand the part you played in this wounding. So it won’t be repeated in the future. During difficult times we often regress to obsessive-compulsive coping patterns. So by admitting your anger and your less-than-perfect behavior, you cleanse the wound with a deeper level of understanding.


4: Make a plan: The plan is your attitude and your healing therapy. It will be temporary and will need to be changed. Stick with your plan even when it’s hard. If you re-expose yourself to your ex-partner you are re-engaging in the shame/blame game. Don’t expose yourself to this wound again unless you’re with someone that can help you.


5: Give time to heal yourself: Protect your heart from the sometimes toxic advice of well-meaning friends, and resist the urge to expose your vulnerability to the world. So be patient and pace yourself. Can you create some scheduled routines and “dates” in your week? This could be as simple as knowing that on what day you can go to yoga, gym, and walk in the morning for 20 minutes. Every Saturday night you can go out to dinner with friends, and every Sunday night you can call someone whom you trust, for a heartfelt talk. Put the schedule up in a place. If you feel you need it. Like all wounding, full healing takes time, but we don’t have to suffer constantly. Build trust in yourself, that you are loveable and that we can love again. Trust in the process, forgive yourself if you’re not perfect. With time you will see the wound is healing beneath the surface.


6: Natural therapy for depression: Take plenty of fresh juice, green vegetables and sprouts e.g. alfalfa and mung daal. you can take cottage cheese and butter milk if it suits you. Take fresh lettuce, celery, grape fruits, or apple juice especially in the night before sleeping.





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Friday, March 30, 2018

Tara System in Jamini Astrology





‘Tara’ means Birth Star (nakshatra) and Tara is calculated to assess compatibility of the other planets nakshatra from the birth star of the individual. It gives clear picture of how the other planets have relationship with the birth star.

To calculate this, you need to take into account the Janma Nakshatra of the person and count in the numbers including janma nakshatra. Whatever numbers comes to the planets it shows what kind of result you will get in that planet mahadasha..

This system use for those people who don’t have their birth time but know their date of birth. There are 27 Nakshatras which Vedic Astrology divides into 9 categories of birth stars, namely-

1. Jenma Tara: which is used to assess the looks of the individual.

2. Sampath Tara: fortune; to assess wealth and prosperity. It is considered to have a good effect.

3. Vipath Tara: disaster; possibility of difficulties or problems in life. It is considered to have a malefic effect.

4. Kshema Tara: well being; to assess prosperity. It is considered to have a good effect.

5. Prathyara Tara:
 obstruction; to assess possibility of obstacles in life. It is considered to have a malefic effect.

6. Sadhaka Tara:  aid; to assess success.It is considered to have a good effect.

7. Vadham Tara: disagreement; to assess sufferings or any hardships in life of the person. It is considered to have a malefic effect.

8. Maithra Tara: friendship; It is considered to have a good effect.

9. Parama Maithra:  intimate friendship; to assess success and It is considered to have a good effect.

This system also used in marriages to check compatibility between couples. And if it is match then couples gets 3 points in ashtakoota system.



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Thursday, March 29, 2018

Musculine and Feminine flow in Relationship


Masculine and Feminine flow in Relationship


The terms masculine and feminine are terms used to describe active and passive energy.  Masculine known as male energy and it's active and positive. Feminine energy is described as female energy and passive and negative energy. Masculine energy is outward and action oriented which we can relate with man and feminine energy is inward which we can relate with the women. As we know women are defined differently than men. Women are more emotional than men and their physical needs are different than men. Women need to take care of their body more than men because women have different bodily functions than men.  Women want more nurturing, caring, connection and love to feel good. Men are different from women on a mental level and also on a physical level. Men's needs are different from women's. Mens are more outward and they want to connect on physical level rather than emotional level. 


So masculine and feminine flow of energy is very important in a relationship. This flow should be in the right direction, otherwise there will be problems in bonding between couples. A man should be in masculine role and a woman should be in feminine role to feel good in a relationship. Depending on masculine and feminine energy of a couple they interact with each other. In relationships women want to experience her feminine nature and men want to come to experience their masculine nature. So women want to be with a man who is in the initiating role and she can surrender, relax in her feminine power and men want to be in an initiating role where he can feel his masculinity. If this flow is reversed then there is a reversal flow of energy. If women in initiating roles and behaving like men then men will not like it and if a men behave like a women be passive and not doing any action, women will not like and this could be a triggering point for couples not interested in each other with time. Basically in relationships we're putting ourselves in a situation where we want to experience our gender in a powerful way like men want to come to know their masculine nature and women come to know their feminine nature in relationships.  


In the relationship astrology how to assess an individual's chart for relationship potential. This is probably the most important and overlooked factor in any relationship assessment.  We need to assess each individual's potential for masculinity and femininity energy in relationship by checking planets in signs. whether planets  are in mascaline or in feminine signs. . 


In astrology there are 12 signs and each sign ruled by planets. There are six signs which are masculine and six are feminine. All the fire and air signs are masculine and all the water and earth signs are feminine. Feminine signs tend to be much more reserved and reactive, while the masculine are much more outgoing and active. 



Masculine   

Feminine

Leo ( Sun )    

Cancer  ( Moon )

Virgo ( Mercury )

Gemini ( Mercury )   

Libra ( Venus )

Taurus ( Venus )  

Aries  ( Mars )  

Scorpio ( Mars )  

Sagittarius ( Jupiter )   

Pisces ( Jupiter  )

Aquarius ( Saturn )

Capricorn  ( Saturn )

                                                                                      


As we know all the planets exist within us in the form of astral bodies.  If we look at Vedic south indian chart, the planets connect with feminine and masculine energy of the chakra system of the human body and they exist in pairs. e. g. Venus in Taurus is feminine and Venus in Libra is masculine. The concepts of masculine and feminine are universal. These masculine and feminine energies exist within us through the chakra system and it shows up when we interact with another person. 


In a man's chart, I will look at the capacity to initiate and to have confidence to have the capability and to stay consistent in our life because men are looking to bond and connect with their masculine in a relationship; this is what gives a healthy and positive feeling in a relationship. Sun, Mars and Jupiter are masculine planets, so they should be in masculine sign in man’s chart. if these planets in feminine sign than man have a crisis of masculinity by being in a situation with a woman who is having a crisis of femininity. For women these planets should be in feminine signs and if not than women trying to initiate relationships which do not feel so good. So a Woman looking for a  man who has capability, consistency,  strengths and confidence so that she can relax in her femininity. 


Venus and the Moon are feminine planets and they should be in feminine sign in the woman's chart and in masculine sign in the man's chart. Venus is the planet love sex, fun, beauty and where we find beauty. Moon is the emotion and heart’s capacity to feel joy. In a man’s chart if  Venus and Moon should be in a masculine sign it'll be more initiating and if a woman’s Venus and Moon is in feminine sign it will be more aligned with her gender integrity. If it is reversed than women in initiating roles in love and men in receiving roles in love which does not feel so good. Therefore masculine feminine interaction is incredibly important in relationships and it should be checked properly. 




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Monday, March 26, 2018

Full Moon in March 2018





Full Moon in Virgo march 31 2018: There is full Moon in the Sign of Virgo in the Nakshatra of Hasta. Full is the time to balance the energy which was created on the New Moon.. Where we all are full on with the energy of pisces. But Now on the full Moon we harmonizing the energy of pisces with the energy of virgo. Pisces and Virgo both are opposite in nature. So on New Moon we are no more in delusion and escaping energy of pisces. New Moon in Virgo is about how can things can be work out, engaged in worldly activities and stay In balance.

Hasta Nakshatra rule by planet Moon, extending from the zodiac of Virgo 10°20' to 23°20' Virgo sign. The symbol for this nakshatra is the palm of the hand. The primary deity is Savitar, the Sun God, who promotes creativity. He is called “the golden handed one”. The shakti of Hasta is “the power to manifest what one seeks and place it in their hands”. Hasta people can have great dexterity and are skilled with the healing arts, and with handicrafts. Hasta is ruled by the Moon, and in the sign of Virgo, ruled by Mercury, reflecting the very mental, intellectual nature of this nakshatra. This the star of knowledge, action, Creativity and determination. This Nakshatras are selected as Muhurta for Selling, medical knowledge, using & handling of medicines, literature-music-art, the 64 Kala Shilpa (various arts, sculpture etc.) jewellery making and wearing. The animal associated with this nakshatra is a female Buffalo which reveals the passionate, sensual nature experienced here.

Full Moon will be aspected by retrograde Mercury. So the full Moon aspected by retrograde Mercury. So this full Moon will be very reflective on your conscious level and voice of your head might be confusing.

Mercury Retrograde in March-23 till April-15-2018: When planets are in retrograde motion, their energy can be considered strong. Mercury is the planet of communication, short distance travel, paperwork, computers, wire, siblings etc. Whenever Mercury retrograde there is some precautions need to be taken related with these things like, don't sign any contracts, because you don't have all the information, try to avoid short distance traveling, because anything can go wrong. If Mercury retrograde trigger individual planets in chart then there is form of some stressful situations, there can be feeling of misunderstandings and miscommunication. However, Mercury retrograde is always is positive reconnecting to friendships, acquaintances you have lost touch with. Mercury retrograde is not favorable for initiating new projects but it is good for editing and working and making the idea of project even stronger and better.

Mercury retrograde in pisces will affects differently to each ascendant.

Aries Ascendant: it will retrograde in 12th house.

Taurus Ascendant: it will retrograde in 11th house.

Gemini Ascendant: it will retrograde in 10th house.

Cancer Ascendant: it will retrograde in 9th house.

Leo Ascendant: it will retrograde in 8th house.

Virgo Ascendant: it will retrograde in 7th house.

Libra Ascendant: it will retrograde in 6th house.

Scorpio Ascendant: it will retrograde in 5th house.

Sagittarius Ascendant: it will retrograde in 4th house.

Capricorn Ascendant: it will retrograde in 3rd house.

Aquarius Ascendant: it will retrograde in 2nd house.

Pisces Ascendant: it will retrograde in 1st house.


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Saturday, March 24, 2018

Rahu (North Node) in 1st and Ketu (South Node) in 7th House axis in Astrology



Rahu and Ketu in astrology are the demons who want to taste the nectar of the world, for that they can do anything. In hindu mythology the story of churning ocean of milk is which is related with our subconscious mind. Rahu and Ketu are lunar nodes which play a very important role in evolving the human consciousness, there is always in our mind a internal dialogue going on what is right or what is wrong, Rahu, Ketu are the confusion, illusion, smoke and split thought of the mind. They always help to evolve consciously. They are always on the axis, they are always 180 degrees apart.


Rahu is the head who wants to eat. It is an obsession, and it is our inner present life desire with us. Rahu is an obsession for those things where it is placed in the chart. Ketu is the body without a head; it is our past life experience. It is already filled with those things, detachment, disinterest for those things where it is placed in the chart. Although they are not the physical planet, they are the most influential forces in the chart. It is the Rahu/Ketu axis that the main force of karmic desire can be seen. 


So what happened when Rahu/Ketu axis fell in the 1st and 7th house. House is an area of life. Rahu placement in the house shows the area of life in which we need to develop mentally and Ketu shows the area of life where we withdraw ourselves.


The 1st house is the house of identity, physical body, appearance, overall general health. And the seventh house is the house of other people, spouses, and dealing with others. Here Rahu is obsessed with their own identity and Ketu withdraws from others. 


Rahu in the 1st house (Rahu (North Node) in Lagna) shows that these people think no one understands them very well. Here the native withdraws from others because other people criticize them too much. These people like to define their personality on their own; they don't like someone else defining their personality. Rahu is rebellious because the native don’t like other people's criticism and make him alone and unusual in behaviour and they try to find the answer about their own identity. Because of this they suffer in married life. The native suffered due to compromise with the partner and they did not feel satisfied with their own spouse and may wander.


Ketu is a planet greatly involved in the spiritualization process and the 7th house primarily stands for spouse and relationships. Ketu in the 7th house usually indicates that the spouse may be a difficult person with some problems and relationships are very strained. But with time these people learn how to live alone or live in solitude. This nature makes them introspect and learn about themselves. If unevolved the native can be very egocentric but if evolved the person is very spiritual. These people need to listen to others to overcome their shortcomings and try to self understand about their shortcomings and should improve themselves. 


With time they learn to develop their own initiative and believe in their own personal power. These natives relied too much on other people in the past, and have been dependent on or dominated by others. Now they explore their own destiny, through his own efforts and his own actions. They will gain confidence and self-reliance. Life put them into situations where they need to act under their own will. They should develop a personality that the public identifies as being individual and they need to take a personal stand on things. 


Ketu (south node) in 7th house makes person's overly idealistic image of a partner. Ketu is to criticize things where it sits. Due to idealistic expectations from partner marriage get disturbed.  As these people grow they signify their personal values are more important than general public or partnerships. Individuality is self-propelled and they do not take heavy partnership responsibility. In reality, the partnership activities are often a drag for them in many ways, but they have to learn to cope with that. Strong aggressive tendencies are developed, and the personality can be action-oriented. 


Rahu in 1st and Ketu in 7th house shows that these individuals submerged their identity in the affairs of others in past lives. Marriage and partnerships are so deeply rooted in his way of doing things that his search of self is constantly viewed through other people's eyes.  They must escape from living in the shadow of other people's lives. These people must ultimately learn how to lead gracefully the role of leadership. 


Summary:  Rahu (North Node) in the 1st house is obsessed!!! about the identity and Ketu (South Node) in 7th house indicates detachment from spouse and relationships are strained.

Rahu in (North Node) Aries and Ketu (South Node) in Libra sign Axis: 


Rahu and Ketu in sign. The sign shows the psychological thinking in how  we think, temperament and according to that we take action or behave.


Rahu in Aries sign:

Rahu (North Node) in Aries is very impatient, eager, child-like. Rahu is already immature and childlike here in Aries and it has become more childlike. Very competitive with others,  very courageous and not hesitate to go forward and take daring action. Rahu (North Node) in Aries is very self assertive, progressive independent and stands on their own conviction.  Rahu in Aries sign shows the person is pioneer in a sense to be innovative, inspiring, independent they come to learn how to be independent and develop their own self-awareness. In past life the native was very indecisive not able to develop its own self will. They need to be careful not to be reckless, careless, impulsive, self-centered and Impatient with others. Rahu always amplifies the energy in which it is sitting. They know how to get things because Mars is a very competitive sign. These people act first and think later. These people are more self interested and self inspired.


Ketu in Libra sign:

Ketu (South Node) in Libra shows that in their childhood or in past lives there has been too much emphasis on learning from others and letting life run by others. These people are highly susceptible to flattery, they judge their happiness by the success or failure of those close to them. They don’t like to live alone, they are not confident enough and confused by the other . These people have some unrealistic desires which makes them susceptible to depression. Ketu in Libra shows these people are good in diplomacy, good in cooperating with others creating beauty and harmony. But now here is time for these people to learn and must make decisions of their own will whether they are right or wrong. Growth comes through self own experience. They must learn to overcome their sensitivity to all others' disharmonious needs of those around them. As the time passes they become self aware of their own thoughts. Thus these natives will achieve their greatest potential after they learn to serve willingly without desiring any reward beyond their own self growth. But they need to be careful not to get into the negative side of Libra sign, these being dependent on others, giving power away to others, over compromising. 


We all have some immaturity in our mind; Rahu is mainly obstruction in areas of life where we are most immature. It wants us to teach a life lesson by making a person mature and evolved consciously. Ketu is maturity, overconfidence, when we are overconfident we make mistakes. Ketu teaches don’t be overconfident. We should try to listen and learn from others, so we can improve ourselves 


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