Tuesday, August 7, 2018

Synastry (Relationship between Husband&Wife/Partners) in Astrology



Synastry is an astrological technique of determining compatibility between two individuals comparing one person chart on top of the other person chart. In this technique, you need to look if similar signs fall over each other in the birth chart of the other person. e.g. If your Sun is in Taurus and your partner Moon is in Taurus, it means your Sun sign falling on top of another person's Moon sign. It is very helpful in understanding the relationship between two couples. Synastry shows how the energy flows between two individuals when they meet and what button they push on each other.

 

Before doing a synastry between two charts you should understand a little bit about how the energy flows in a relationship between men and women.. Relationships are always good if men have male planets and women have female planets. This is always helpful in harmonious flow of energy which is required for a healthy and happy relationship. But if it is the opposite, if men have female planets and women have male planets and fall on top of each other then energy is flowing in the reverse direction which is not good to have a happy and healthy relationship.

 

This description only applies if there is no aspect and no conjunction of other planets with them.

 

Synastry Sun and Moon 

Sun falls on top of Moon: Sun and Moon are good friends in astrology. Sun is the supreme soul. It is the only one and he is the king. Moon is the mind, it is the reflection of Sunlight. They are the real king and queen. They both want to meet each other. This is a very good synstary, if they fall over each other. These couples have a very powerful synastry. They have some kind of magnetic attraction between them which leads to long term relationships. They are the natural pair (king and queen). They rule signs next to each other in the birth chart. If men have Sun and fall over women Moon, then it is good because women boost man confidence, expression, and support man. But it is also fine if it is vice-verse; it is a powerful glue between them. 

Synastry Mars and Venus 

Mars falls on top of Venus: It’s the indicator of romantic relationships. Venus is love  and sexual energy. Mars is the drive and fighting energy. Mars ruled Aries and Scorpio and Venus ruled Libra and Taurus. They are always opposite to each other in the birth chart. Mars and Venus are a pair of lovers. They actually initially attract each other and have very dynamic, sexual and passionate relationships. But if it is the only synastry match between them it is very difficult to hold a relationship for long term. Because initially they attract and enjoy each other's company but after some time it converts into fighting. Because Venus compromises too much and Mars has too much individualistic nature. Due to this it converted into fighting. Anyhow if man Mars falls on top of woman Venus it is better but if woman Mars falls on top of man Venus then women are in an aggressive role which a man may not like. But it always gives attraction in any case.

 

Synastry Sun and Venus 

Sun falls on top of Venus: Sun and Venus synastry is problematic. Sun is the king and Venus is the princess. They have different agendas in life. Sun is more focused on career, reputation and power, and Venus is more on to relationship, love and sex. Although they attract each other and can enjoy love and sex but after sometime they clash with each other energy. Because the Sun wants to focus on power and career but Venus wants to enjoy luxury and comfort which create rifts between them. There is a saying ‘’power (Sun) attracts beauty (Venus)’’ this is the principle of the universe. Venus energy is always distracting to the Sun. Venus never helps in the Sun's goals in life. Not good for a long term relationship.  

Mars falls on top of Saturn 

Synastry Mars and Saturn:  Mars is an individualistic aggression and impulsive quality. Saturn is a disciplined and serious kind of energy. Although it gives sexual attraction, it is very difficult in synastry. If Mars falls on Saturn it also disturbs as Saturn person wants to focus on long term goals but Mars person disturbs and does not cooperate with the person's long term commitment which is very frustrating in relationships. 

Synastry Mars and Moon 

 

Mars falls on top of the Moon: Moon is emotions and wants to be peaceful and connected. Mars is an individualistic aggression and impulsive quality. Although it gives sexual attraction, it is very difficult in synastry. The Moon has emotions and emotions can be illogical but Mars is very impatient, logical and black and white thinking. Mars people are not patient with Moon people. It just disturbs the Moon's peace and connectivity by asking questions about why, what and what not. It doesn't matter who’s Mars falls on another Moon sign. The synastry between couples is very impatient, argumentative, conflicting and aggressive. The person who has the Moon suffers from Mars. 

Synastry Saturn and Moon

Saturn falls on top of the Moon: Saturn and Moon both are opposite plants. Saturn is the planet of harsh reality of life. Saturn is aware of time and is responsible, serious, cold and conservative in nature. The Moon is opposite of Saturn. The Moon always wants peace, connection and happiness. This is a very difficult synastry between partners. Women suffer more if man Saturn falls on her Moon. This synastry gives unhappiness in relationships.  

Synastry Sun and Mars

Sun falls on top of Mars: These both planets are individualistic and focus on their power. It is very supportive and productive career wise. They cooperate with each other in their power but they may have some clash with each other in their relationship interaction. Sun and Mars are both masculine planets. The interaction between couples is very masculine. For a good relationship there should be some feminine energy to have balance in a relationship. It is a difficult synastry for women's emotional well-being. 

Synastry Moon and Venus

Moon falls on top of Venus: This synastry is very good whether men Moon falls on women Venus or vice-versa. Moon and Venus both are feminine and they want to connect with people. Relationships are all about love and connection. Moon is emotional and gentle, Venus is a loving and balanced planet. It just makes couples more loving, connected, balanced. It feels appreciated and harmonious in a relationship. They take care and love each other and they desire to be together. But Moon people need to be careful not to give too much love in a relationship because in an adult relationship we need mutual love and Moon is selfless love which does not work in long term adult relationships. The person who has Moon may feel used up in love in a long term relationship.

 

Synastry Jupiter and Sun or Moon or Venus or Mars 

Jupiter falls on top of the Sun or Moon or Venus or Mars: Jupiter is the planet of wisdom and guidance. If men Jupiter falls on women Sun, Moon, Venus and Mars is very good. It always helps, supports emotionally, guides women and supports long term goals in her life. And if women Jupiter falls on men Sun, Moon, Venus and Mars, then women always guide and support men in his life. This synastry is always good in any case. Jupiter always gives hope, graciousness, learning together and meaningful relationships.   

If any planets fall in the 1st house or 7th house, it has a greater impact on relationships because through ascendant and 7th house (house of other people) we experience life. And it could be very challenging if difficult planets fall on each other's ascendant or in 7th house.




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